A crash course in changing the world.
Be more positive. If you're always going to dwell on the negatives in life, or a situation, then it's going to bring out your
worse qualities in life. It's going to bring out the bad in you. Instead
of thinking about all that is wrong, think about all that is good. It
will change your attitude for starters.
Think about the position others are in. This is for those who tend to treat others badly, because they aren't getting what they want
out of them. Well, that's an easy way to be bitter, mad, and angry. That
anger takes away a lot from you and tends to make you less pleasant to
be around. Well think about how others are feeling? Put yourselves in
their shoes. Try to understand their point of view.
Take small steps in achieving something. This is an easy reason why a lot of people seem to fail at a lot of what they do.
Everything is a rush. They have to get things done NOW, without taking
the proper time. Take those baby steps, and do things one at a time.
Stop making things more difficult than they are. Everything can be
accomplished, if you give it the proper process. Slow it down, some of
the wiser words you'll ever hear.
Learn and be willing to change. A great Einstein quote. I could be paraphrasing it. "Try not to become a man of success but
rather to become a man of value." Another great quote, "Insanity: doing
the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."
Those who are willing to change, are willing to be better at anything in
life. It starts with being a better person.
Be nicer to people. This is the easiest way to get results from people. Whether it's work, or in your personal life. People will be
much more responsive to you, when you show them respect. To get respect
you have to give it to others.
Learn to forgive and let go of a grudge. The more anger you build up, the more feuds you have. The more it takes away from you as a
person. Forgiving someone can relieve a lot of tension and stress you
have built up. Not everything is so personal in life. Once you can
understand that, you have less feuds, fights, which will improve your
outlook in life, and the ability to be a great person. People aren't
purposely out to hurt you. They are just defensive and scared, that's
all it is.
Be honest. "The truth shall set you free." The best way to be a better person, is being honest. Not just to others, but to yourself.
Lies will only bring you down in the end. Whether this is work,
relationships, or just your own self.
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