A crash course in changing the world.
Sometimes, empowering men, helps to empower women, so, in a program empowering women, no harm in including a percentage of men attendees. Sometimes, spouse or close family members are asked to attend. Women die giving birth because the men do not believe in driving or taking them for their checkups, or for delivery. Sometimes it is hard to help women in remote areas, because they are resistant to change. A lady in the desert, in Wadi Rum – Jordan, gathered 40 women and they started to weave handbags, table covering, pillow cases and saddles, out of the sheep wool they have. I tried to help her by bringing a Dutch lady, and expert in handicrafts and weaving, who taught them how to hide the ends of the threads, and how to create new designs in coloured themes patters to create sets people are more apt to buy, and to a****s market preference and produce more of the desired coloures. The woman was resistant to change and had a belief that the traditional designs should be adhered to, despite the acc**ulating quantities. She was a leader the other women did not wish to cross. I tried to get closer to her and understand her. She had a great fear as she was promised permanent ownership of the premises but someone changed the deal to a rental and that affected her and increased her fear and reduced her willingness to make changes. However, what attracted my attention, were the women in Wadi Mousa, the project gave the husbands the land and the women took over. Chatting with the husband, he said it was his joy to watch his wife handle everything and take over. Better than the urban men, I thought ! so, in simple rural communities, void of negative traditions, women are treated majestically, alsa, the exception not the norm, obviously. Another INTERESTING fact, about how communities treat women differently: is the INDIAN nation. Did you know that the choice to go into a war or not is handed over to the women to make? Women will not jeopardize the safety of the children unless it was a life and death situation. |
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